I’m sorry but I must disagree. Most doctors will recommend natural cooking oil over any commercial lube; especially if the woman has issues with yeast infections. It’s also recommended by every piece of literature I’ve seen about perineal massage.
I do agree, however, that water based lube should be used with silicon toys since oil can degrade them over time.
The best lube for fisting and stretching is a natural cooking oil like vegetable, olive, or warm coconut oil. They’re also relatively cheap so double-bonus!
As far as cheap toys, I’d recommend a Kong dog toy which can be found at practically any pet store. Check out my post here:
Also read my advice section for other stretching tips.
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